If the user does not pass any refspecs to push, try to use those
configured via the configuration or via add_push().

This function, similar in style to git_remote_fetch(), performs all the
steps required for a push, with a similar interface.

The remote callbacks struct has learnt about the push callbacks, letting
us set the callbacks a single time instead of setting some in the remote
and some in the push operation.

This brings it in line with the rest of the lookup functions.

remote: accept a repo and name for renaming

Remote objects are not meant to be changed from under the user. We did
this in rename, but only the name and left the refspecs, such that a
save would save the wrong refspecs (and a fetch and anything else would
use the wrong refspecs).

Instead, let's simply take a name and not change any loaded remote from
under the user.

This function does not in fact tell us anything, as almost anything with
a colon in it is a valid rsync-style SSH path; it can not tell us that
we do not support ftp or afp or similar as those are still valid SSH
paths and we do support that.

remote: accept a repository and remote name for deletion

We don't need the remote loaded, and the function extracted both of
these from the git_remote in order to do its work, so let's remote a
step and not ask for the loaded remote at all.

This fixes #2390.

With opportunistic ref updates, git has introduced the concept of having
base refspecs *and* refspecs that are active for a particular fetch.

Let's start by letting the user override the refspecs for download.