odb: make the writestream's size a git_off_t

Instead of having it set in a different place from every other callback,
put it the main structure. This removes some state from the remote and
makes it behave more like clone, where the constructors are passed via
the options.

Having the setting be different from calling its actions was not a great
idea and made for the sake of the wrong convenience.

Instead of that, accept either fetch options, push options or the
callbacks when dealing with the remote. The fetch options are currently
only the callbacks, but more options will be moved from setters and
getters on the remote to the options.

This does mean passing the same struct along the different functions but
the typical use-case will only call git_remote_fetch() or
git_remote_push() and so won't notice much difference.

Restricting files to size_t is a silly limitation. The loose backend
writes to a file directly, so there is no issue in using 63 bits for the
size.

We still assume that the header is going to fit in 64 bytes, which does
mean quite a bit smaller files due to the run-length encoding, but it's
still a much larger size than you would want Git to handle.

The smart transport has already take the payload param. For the
sub transport a payload param is useful for the implementer.

This changes the get_entry() method to return a refcounted version of
the config entry, which you have to free when you're done.

This allows us to avoid freeing the memory in which the entry is stored
on a refresh, which may happen at any time for a live config.

For this reason, get_string() has been forbidden on live configs and a
new function get_string_buf() has been added, which stores the string in
a git_buf which the user then owns.

The functions which parse the string value takea advantage of the
borrowing to parse safely and then release the entry.

For consistency with the rest of the library, where an opt is an
options *structure*.

Add structures and preliminary functions to take a buffer, file or
blob and write the contents in chunks through an arbitrary number
of chained filters, finally writing into a user-provided function
accept the contents.