When implementing the ssh testing, the move to the script made it so
the first test suite's exit code was ignored. Check whether the main
tests fail and exit with an error in that case.

Set up the ssh credentials so we are able to talk to localhost and
issue git commands. Move to use a script, as the command list is
getting somewhat long.

While here, delay installing valgrind until we need it, as it and its
dependencies are by far the largest downloads and this allows us to
start compiling (and failing) faster and we only incur this cost when
the test suite runs successfully.