The `merge_file__xdiff` function checks if either `ours` or
`theirs` is `NULL`. The function is to be called with existing
files, though, and in fact already unconditionally dereferences
both pointers.

Remove the unnecessary check to silence warnings.

Consumers can now register custom merged drivers with
`git_merge_driver_register`.  This allows consumers to support the
merge drivers, as configured in `.gitattributes`.  Consumers will be
asked to perform the file-level merge when a custom driver is
configured.

xdiff craps the bed on large files.  Treat very large files as binary,
so that it doesn't even have to try.

Refactor our merge binary handling to better match git.git, which
looks for a NUL in the first 8000 bytes.