Validate loose reference names on Win32.

Disallow:
 1. paths with trailing dot
 2. paths with trailing space
 3. paths with trailing colon
 4. paths that are 8.3 short names of .git folders ("GIT~1")
 5. paths that are reserved path names (COM1, LPT1, etc).
 6. paths with reserved DOS characters (colons, asterisks, etc)

These paths would (without \\?\ syntax) be elided to other paths - for
example, ".git." would be written as ".git".  As a result, writing these
paths literally (using \\?\ syntax) makes them hard to operate with from
the shell, Windows Explorer or other tools.  Disallow these.

A transaction allows you to lock multiple references and set up changes
for them before applying the changes all at once (or as close as the
backend supports).

This can be used for replication purposes, or for making sure some
operations run when the reference is locked and thus cannot be changed.

This lets us work without worrying about what's happening but work on a
snapshot.

And decrease extra reload checks of config data.

There are a few places where we need to join three strings to
assemble a path.  This adds a simple join3 function to avoid the
comparatively expensive join_n (which calls strlen on each string
twice).

On bare by default, or when core.logallrefupdates is false, we must not
write the reflog.

Given HEAD -> master -> foo, when updating foo's reflog we should also
update HEAD's, as it's considered the current branch.