Next to including several files, our "common.h" header also declares
various macros which are then used throughout the project. As such, we
have to make sure to always include this file first in all
implementation files. Otherwise, we might encounter problems or even
silent behavioural differences due to macros or defines not being
defined as they should be. So in fact, our header and implementation
files should make sure to always include "common.h" first.

This commit does so by establishing a common include pattern. Header
files inside of "src" will now always include "common.h" as its first
other file, separated by a newline from all the other includes to make
it stand out as special. There are two cases for the implementation
files. If they do have a matching header file, they will always include
this one first, leading to "common.h" being transitively included as
first file. If they do not have a matching header file, they instead
include "common.h" as first file themselves.

This fixes the outlined problems and will become our standard practice
for header and source files inside of the "src/" from now on.

Initially, the setting has been solely used to enable the use of
`fsync()` when creating objects. Since then, the use has been extended
to also cover references and index files. As the option is not yet part
of any release, we can still correct this by renaming the option to
something more sensible, indicating not only correlation to objects.

This commit renames the option to `GIT_OPT_ENABLE_FSYNC_GITDIR`. We also
move the variable from the object to repository source code.

Verify object hashes

Verifying hashsums of objects we are reading from the ODB may be costly
as we have to perform an additional hashsum calculation on the object.
Especially when reading large objects, the penalty can be as high as
35%, as can be seen when executing the equivalent of `git cat-file` with
and without verification enabled. To mitigate for this, we add a global
option for libgit2 which enables the developer to turn off the
verification, e.g. when he can be reasonably sure that the objects on
disk won't be corrupted.

This can prevent FILE_SHARED_VIOLATIONS when used in tools such as TortoiseGit TGitCache and FILE_SHARE_DELETE, because files can be opened w/o being locked any more.

Signed-off-by: Sven Strickroth <email@cs-ware.de>

Rename `GIT_OPT_ENABLE_SYNCHRONIZED_OBJECT_CREATION` ->
`GIT_OPT_ENABLE_SYNCHRONOUS_OBJECT_CREATION`.

Allow users to enable `SYNCHRONIZED_OBJECT_CREATION` with a setting.