Remove the low-level interface that was exposing implementation details of
`git_oidmap` to callers. From now on, only the high-level functions shall be
used to retrieve or modify values of a map. Adjust remaining existing callers.

Currently, one would use either `git_oidmap_insert` to insert key/value pairs
into a map or `git_oidmap_put` to insert a key only. These function have
historically been macros, which is why their syntax is kind of weird: instead of
returning an error code directly, they instead have to be passed a pointer to
where the return value shall be stored. This does not match libgit2's common
idiom of directly returning error codes.Furthermore, `git_oidmap_put` is tightly
coupled with implementation details of the map as it exposes the index of
inserted entries.

Introduce a new function `git_oidmap_set`, which takes as parameters the map,
key and value and directly returns an error code. Convert all trivial callers of
`git_oidmap_insert` and `git_oidmap_put` to make use of it.

The current way of looking up an entry from a map is tightly coupled with the
map implementation, as one first has to look up the index of the key and then
retrieve the associated value by using the index. As a caller, you usually do
not care about any indices at all, though, so this is more complicated than
really necessary. Furthermore, it invites for errors to happen if the correct
error checking sequence is not being followed.

Introduce a new high-level function `git_oidmap_get` that takes a map and a key
and returns a pointer to the associated value if such a key exists. Otherwise,
a `NULL` pointer is returned. Adjust all callers that can trivially be
converted.

Currently, the lifecycle functions for maps (allocation, deallocation, resize)
are not named in a uniform way and do not have a uniform function signature.
Rename the functions to fix that, and stick to libgit2's naming scheme of saying
`git_foo_new`. This results in the following new interface for allocation:

- `int git_<t>map_new(git_<t>map **out)` to allocate a new map, returning an
  error code if we ran out of memory

- `void git_<t>map_free(git_<t>map *map)` to free a map

- `void git_<t>map_clear(git<t>map *map)` to remove all entries from a map

This commit also fixes all existing callers.

Instead of using the `khiter_t`, `git_strmap_iter` and `khint_t` types,
simply use `size_t` instead. This decouples code from the khash stuff
and makes it possible to move the khash includes into the implementation
files.