When a non-empty directory exists and prevents the creation of a
reflog, provide a more informative error message.

When a (non-empty) directory exists at the reference target
location, complain with a more actionable error message.

Using calloc instead of malloc because the parse error will lead to an immediate free of committer (and its properties, which can segfault on free if undefined - test_refs_reflog_reflog__reading_a_reflog_with_invalid_format_returns_error segfaulted before the fix).

#3458

Untangle git_futils_mkdir from git_futils_mkdir_ext - the latter
assumes that we own everything beneath the base, as if it were
being called with a base of the repository or working directory,
and is tailored towards checkout and ensuring that there is no
bogosity beneath the base that must be cleaned up.

This is (at best) slow and (at worst) unsafe in the larger context
of a filesystem where we do not own things and cannot do things like
unlink symlinks that are in our way.

Removing a reflog upon ref deletion is something which only some
backends might wish to do. Backends which are database-backed may wish
to archive a reflog, log-based ones may not need to do anything.

When we look for which remote corresponds to a remote-tracking branch,
we look in the refspecs to see which ones matches. If none do, we should
abort. We currently ignore the error message from this operation, so
let's not do that anymore.

As part of the test we're writing, let's test for the expected behaviour
if we cannot find a refspec which tells us what the remote-tracking
branch for a remote would look like.