Inspection API already supports reflection of table
indexes information and those also include unique
constraints (at least for PostgreSQL and MySQL).
But it could be actually useful to distinguish between
indexes and plain unique constraints (though both are
implemented in the same way internally in RDBMS).

This change adds a new method to Inspection API - get_unique_constraints()
and implements it for SQLite, PostgreSQL and MySQL dialects.

Makes gaerdbms for App Engine use local MySQL server when running in dev_appserver2

- use an isinstance() check, concerned a TypeError might be indiscriminate

Currently, one can specify the prefix length for an index
column using 'mysql_length' keyword argument when creating
an Index instance. But in case of composite indexes the
prefix length value is applied only to the last column.

Extend the existing API in way so that 'mysql_length' argument
value can be either:
    - an integer specifying the same prefix length value
      for each column of an index
    - a (column_name --> integer value) mapping specifying
      the prefix length value for each column of an index
      separately

Fixes issue #2704.

:class:`.ForeignKeyConstraint` will not render the ``DEFERRABLE`` keyword
on the MySQL dialect.  For a long time we left this in place because
a non-deferrable foreign key would act very differently than a deferrable
one, but some environments just disable FKs on MySQL, so we'll be less
opinionated here. [ticket:2721]