to get all flake8 passing

Removed ungrammatical apostrophes from documentation, replacing
"it's" with "its" where appropriate (but in a few cases with "it is"
when that read better).

While doing that, I also fixed a couple of minor typos etc.
as I noticed them.

sent to the primary key constraint; existing tests in the PG dialect
confirm this.

reflection now updates the PKC in place.
- support the use case of the empty PrimaryKeyConstraint in order to specify
constraint options; the columns marked as primary_key=True will now be gathered
into the columns collection, rather than being ignored. [ticket:2910]
- add validation such that column specification should only take place
in the PrimaryKeyConstraint directly, or by using primary_key=True flags;
if both are present, they have to match exactly, otherwise the condition is
assumed to be ambiguous, and a warning is emitted; the old behavior of
using the PKC columns only is maintained.

- clean up some shenanigans in reflection

arguments; [ticket:2866]
- add dialect specific kwarg functionality to ForeignKeyConstraint, ForeignKey

- remove informix, maxdb, access symbols from tests etc.