if a :class:`.Index` were associated with a :class:`.Column` that
is associated with a lower-case-t :class:`.TableClause`; the
association should be ignored for the purposes of associating
the index with a :class:`.Table`.
fixes #3616

remove "undoc members" that was putting some random server_default
atributes from ColumnClause

(cherry picked from commit 270301890ae87ec32a46bb17889d9776b7de1468)

insert-default holding columns not otherwise included in the SET
clause (such as primary key cols) to get rendered into the RETURNING
even though this is an UPDATE.

- Major fixes to the :paramref:`.Mapper.eager_defaults` flag, this
flag would not be honored correctly in the case that multiple
UPDATE statements were to be emitted, either as part of a flush
or a bulk update operation.  Additionally, RETURNING
would be emitted unnecessarily within update statements.

fixes #3609

the :class:`.Select` construct would have its ``._raw_columns``
collection mutated in-place when compiling the :class:`.Insert`
construct, when the target :class:`.Table` has Python-side defaults.
The :class:`.Select` construct would compile standalone with the
erroneous column present subsequent to compilation of the
:class:`.Insert`, and the the :class:`.Insert` statement itself would
fail on a second compile attempt due to duplicate bound parameters.
fixes #3603

such as a CHECK constraint would render an erroneous comma in the
definition; this scenario can occur such as with a Postgresql
INHERITS table that has no columns of its own.
fixes #3598

statement.  This feature is available by passing the
:paramref:`~.sqlalchemy.sql.expression.update.preserve_parameter_order`
flag either to the core :class:`.Update` construct or alternatively
adding it to the :paramref:`.Query.update.update_args` dictionary at
the ORM-level, also passing the parameters themselves as a list of 2-tuples.
Thanks to Gorka Eguileor for implementation and tests.
adapted from pullreq github:200

For example, this query:

    SELECT s1.users.name FROM s1.users FOR UPDATE OF s1.users

should actually be:

    SELECT s1.users.name FROM s1.users FOR UPDATE OF users

fixes #3573