the new behavior of the autoincrement flag as per ref #3216

handled within visit_select(); this attribute was added in the
1.0 series to accommodate the subquery wrapping behavior of
SQL Server and Oracle while also working with positional
column targeting and no longer relying upon "key fallback"
in order to target columns in such a statement.  The IBM DB2
third-party dialect also has this use case, but its implementation
is using regular expressions to rewrite the textual SELECT only
and does not make use of a "wrapped" select at this time.
The logic no longer attempts to reconcile proxy set collections as
this was not deterministic, and instead assumes that the select()
and the wrapper select() match their columns postionally,
at least for the column positions they have in common,
so it is now very simple and safe.  fixes #3657.
- as a side effect of #3657 it was also revealed that the
strategy of calling upon a ResultProxy._getter was not
correctly calling into NoSuchColumnError when an expected
column was not present, and instead returned None up to
loading.instances() to produce NoneType failures; added
a raiseerr argument to _getter() which is called when we
aren't expecting None, fixes #3658.

if not

same time

unfortunately the synonym doesn't work for SQL statements here
when the dblink is on a different user, testing this is not really
critical so just removed it.

- modernize those tests as well

fixes #3095, #3292
- reorganize enum constructor to again work with the MySQL
ENUM type
- add a new create_constraint flag to Enum to complement that of
Boolean
- reinstate the CHECK constraint tests for enum, these already
fail /skip against the MySQL backend
- simplify lookup rules in Enum, have them apply to all varieties
of Enum equally

override with a column expression (e.g. by using ``'x' in col``)
would cause an endless loop in the case of an ARRAY type, as Python
defers this to ``__getitem__`` access which never raises for this
type.  Overall, all use of ``__contains__`` now raises
NotImplementedError.
fixes #3642