"auto" now so True can indicate the dialect would support this

"auto increment" column has been changed, such that autoincrement
is no longer implicitly enabled for a :class:`.Table` that has a
composite primary key.  In order to accommodate being able to enable
autoincrement for a composite PK member column while at the same time
maintaining SQLAlchemy's long standing behavior of enabling
implicit autoincrement for a single integer primary key, a third
state has been added to the :paramref:`.Column.autoincrement` parameter
``"auto"``, which is now the default. fixes #3216
- The MySQL dialect no longer generates an extra "KEY" directive when
generating CREATE TABLE DDL for a table using InnoDB with a
composite primary key with AUTO_INCREMENT on a column that isn't the
first column;  to overcome InnoDB's limitation here, the PRIMARY KEY
constraint is now generated with the AUTO_INCREMENT column placed
first in the list of columns.

To avoid penalties for updates that do not require ordering, we will
only use OrderedDict for updates that receive a tuple or list of pairs,
and all kinds of dictionaries (dict, sqlalchemy's OrderedDict, or
collections.OrderedDict) will be treateated as unordered updates, just
like we were doing before.

This way this new feature will not change how updates behave for any
existing code and will only affect those that use the new ordered
feature.

This patch reverts update tests to how they were before as well as adds
a couple of tests to confirm that OrderedDicts are really treated like
normal dicts.

finally, test_resultset and test_insert_exec.   Update all
idioms within these.

In some DBs the UPDATE operation is order dependent, so the operation
behaves differently depending on the order of the values.

As an example, imagine a volumes table with columns 'status' and
'previous_status' and we want to update a volume that has 'available' in
the status column.

If the SQL query is performed as:

 UPDATE volumes SET previous_status=status, status='new' WHERE id=1;

This will result in a volume with 'new' status and 'available'
previous_status both on SQLite and MariaDB, but if we reverse the
columns:

 UPDATE volumes SET status='new', previous_status=status WHERE id=1;

We will get the same result in SQLite but will result in a volume with
status and previous_status set to 'new' in MariaDB, which is not what we
want.

So order must be taken into consideration in some cases and it should be
allowed to ve specified via the Query update method or the values method
of an update.

This patch fixes this issue by preserving the order of parameters in
updates and allowing to receive not only dictionaries in update and
values but also ordered dictionaries and list/tuples of value pairs
(like dict and OrderedDict do).

fixes #3541

expression element which is late-evaluated at compile time.  Previously,
the function was only a conversion function which would handle different
expression inputs by returning either a :class:`.Label` of a column-oriented
expression or a copy of a given :class:`.BindParameter` object,
which in particular prevented the operation from being logically
maintained when an ORM-level expression transformation would convert
a column to a bound parameter (e.g. for lazy loading).
fixes #3531

insert statement, :ticket:`3288`, where the column type for the
default-holding column would not be propagated to the compiled
statement in the case where the default was being used,
leading to bind-level type handlers not being invoked.
fixes #3520