_reset_agent, so that it's local to the various begin_impl(),
rollback_impl(), etc.  this allows setting/resetting of the flag
to be symmetric.
- don't set _reset_agent if it's not None, don't unset it if it isn't
our own transaction.
- make sure we clean it out in close().
- basically, we're dealing here with pools using "threadlocal" that have a
counter, other various mismatches that the tests bring up
- test for recover() now has to invalidate() the previous connection,
because closing it actually rolls it back (e.g. this test was relying
on the broken behavior).

:class:`.RootTransaction` or :class:`.TwoPhaseTransaction`
with its immediate :class:`._ConnectionFairy` as a "reset handler"
for the span of that transaction, which takes over the task
of calling commit() or rollback() for the "reset on return" behavior
of :class:`.Pool` if the transaction was not otherwise completed.
This resolves the issue that a picky transaction
like that of MySQL two-phase will be
properly closed out when the connection is closed without an
explicit rollback or commit (e.g. no longer raises "XAER_RMFAIL"
in this case - note this only shows up in logging as the exception
is not propagated within pool reset).
This issue would arise e.g. when using an orm
:class:`.Session` with ``twophase`` set, and then
:meth:`.Session.close` is called without an explicit rollback or
commit.   The change also has the effect that you will now see
an explicit "ROLLBACK" in the logs when using a :class:`.Session`
object in non-autocommit mode regardless of how that session was
discarded.  Thanks to Jeff Dairiki and Laurence Rowe for isolating
the issue here. [ticket:2907]

events including auto-invalidation, which is useful both for tests here as well as
detecting failure conditions within the "reset" or "close" cases.
- rename the argument for PoolEvents.reset() to dbapi_connection and connection_record
to be consistent with everything else.
- add new documentation sections on invalidation, including auto-invalidation
and the invalidation process within the pool.
- add _ConnectionFairy and _ConnectionRecord to the pool documentation.  Establish
docs for common _ConnectionFairy/_ConnectionRecord methods and accessors and
have PoolEvents docs refer to _ConnectionRecord,
since it is passed to all events.  Rename a few _ConnectionFairy methods that are actually
private to pool such as _checkout(), _checkin() and _checkout_existing(); there should not
be any external code calling these

Conflicts:
	doc/build/changelog/changelog_09.rst