update aiomysql extra to match asyncpg, also dedupe asyncio extras

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### Description
currently the asyncio extra-deps are duplicated between every async driver (or it seems they are supposed to be). This updates all async drivers to depend on the `sqlalchemy[asyncio]` extra using the `%(asyncio)s` shorthand

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- [ ] A documentation / typographical error fix
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- [ ] A short code fix
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**Have a nice day!**

Closes: #5830
Pull-request: https://github.com/sqlalchemy/sqlalchemy/pull/5830
Pull-request-sha: 9146e5f1391015b284fd96def8c04e36a7c985d2

Change-Id: I1865cc67b4cdf9f73a7effbfcb86cf2c1f824644

1 files changed, 5 insertions, 3 deletions

diff --git a/setup.cfg b/setup.cfg
index 99c0b13cd..792a35d6e 100644
--- a/setup.cfg
+++ b/setup.cfg
@@ -43,7 +43,7 @@ install_requires =
 
 [options.extras_require]
 asyncio =
-    greenlet;python_version>="3"
+    greenlet!=0.4.17;python_version>="3"
 mssql = pyodbc
 mssql_pymssql = pymssql
 mssql_pyodbc = pyodbc
@@ -60,14 +60,16 @@ oracle =
 postgresql = psycopg2>=2.7
 postgresql_pg8000 = pg8000>=1.16.6
 postgresql_asyncpg =
+    %(asyncio)s
     asyncpg;python_version>="3"
-    greenlet;python_version>="3"
 postgresql_psycopg2binary = psycopg2-binary
 postgresql_psycopg2cffi = psycopg2cffi
 pymysql =
     pymysql;python_version>="3"
     pymysql<1;python_version<"3"
-aiomysql = aiomysql
+aiomysql =
+    %(asyncio)s
+    aiomysql;python_version>="3"
 
 [egg_info]
 tag_build = dev